Saturday 28 June 2014

My baby boy

heyyy bloggers!!! Been long, well I had forgotten abt my blog...wht was I busy with...my baby...yeah i'm a mommy now.
I have always been found of kids. This pregnancy came at "d right time" hehe.. Somehow I alredy knew when I carried..call it 6th sense or intution or feeling of a mom in d making. So tht day as usual Nikhil came home late from work and I said u knw wht I feel pregnant, he laughed it out. Oh ya u said tht last time, may be I was wanting be pregnant so I was feeling so...but this time I was sure.so I called uo mom and said d same, she was like do u have any symptoms or when did u miss ur periods...ehhhh well its just been 6 days since I missed mom I replied, oh no no u cant be pregnant so soon she said. I was shattered, but somewher I was positive. So I waited and on June 20th morning at 6 a.m I tested with a home kit(I never wake up DAT early) and voila those lines said it all I was PREGNANT. It wa like god has blessed me (Suprabhata playin frm a nearby temple) oh I said to myself this is a sign yeah I m goin to carry him. "HIM" ya somehow I felt it was a baby boy, nonetheless mine was a family of 6 girls and one boy and my sister is blessed with two beautiful girls, maybe I was just facinating. So I crawl back to my bed ans whisper to my hubby baby I'm pregnant. He goes like yeah ok now sleep. No no I confirmed it. Wht !!! He hugs me and goes back to sleep (men n u see). So was I sleepy...nope I was in my imagination. I call my in laws and all relatives, all of them thrilled and giving loads of advice and some even askin isnt it to early?? . Nope its not. ( me n my hubby we both were 26 by then) so wht.. Its NT illegal right.
so the journey begins and it was peaceful, no morning sickness, no dizziness, no nothing. I was happy being pregnant.
so there comes the actual check up, and th doc does an USG says ya u are prgnant but we cant confirm as there is no heatbeat, I was 5 weeks. So the doc said in any case we dont hear a heartbeat we would terminate the pregnancy. I didnt want to hear all this, so way back home I kept sayin to my self all is well. 7th week another uwg and I was confirmed pregnant..ufff thank god.
so days passed by I was a happy go lucky pregnant women, I never was worried. Only the chicken ck ups and USG mad me wrry. All wnt well and we decided to pack bags to mlore for delivery(my hometown) it was n the 8th month. I reach mlore and every one advices me to do all the housold chores for a safe normal delivery. Thank god my mum in law doesnt belive in it, but I did do all the work and walking and with every twitch or pain I wuld assume it to be A labour pain. Hehe we ladies.
so I was due on Feb 27th, and all my freinds or relatives who were pregnant at the same time dwlivered... All normal. Wow and I was waiting for my turn, everyday was a new day waiting for my baby to come to my world. It was Feb 13th I had contractions all I was waiting for the water to break ( as told by my elders on wht wuld happen if I have labour pain). So tht night passed and I knew my baby was in no hurry, but I was, I wante to see my baby , feel him. Na xt day I had my weekly appointment and ultra sound. Doc says we wil wait for another week cause the baby has to decednd down. Another week passed by and on 22nd my doctor confirms tht I wil be having a C section, I was not happy, but I did have some comokications if I wuld go for a normal delivery, so my family agreed for the same and we select a time and date accordingly( by astrology).26th morning was the date fixed, on 25th night o got admitted and certain procrdures were completed for the delivery. I was given enema that night and felt heavy contractions for 10mins but not a sign after that, so on 26th morning at 5 am I was taken inside the operation theater (my hubby was all worried). As I was O -ve blood group, we needed to arrange for blood in any case of emergency. So the enviornment was all tense outside the OT. My hubby alredy had arrange for the blood (oh so organized)...
Inside the OT at 7:10 a.m I was given spinal anesthesia, in a sec I felt numb and was operated ( felt like they were dragging my body frm one end to other) and after 5 mins of fiddeling i was waiting for my babys cry, but i culsnt i was all worried..all weird thought ran across my head... And there goes he came out with a little squeak...they shower his face to me from the top..he looked like a Spiderman..,yes it was a BOY...YEAH. I culdnt sink tht feeling.. It was a celebration, as my family had a baby boy after 34 long yrs...wowww and i was the one selected to gift a boy to the family :) .....
so tht baby boy is named neerav and he is 4 months now...how i love him

Wednesday 12 June 2013

being dentist

well he he dont really knw shuld I laugh or cry at d fate of BDS dentist....u pay lakhs to get degree come out den u realise oh all wht I learnt was only theory nuthin abt RCT/Crown or any clinical work..and den nw a new scheme dentists in clinic hav a package...pay an amount and learn all dis clinical work for thousands wowww...so r u mockin at us... we came out struggling frm,college was Jus for dis...whta system of teaching is this..y does dis happen in India..dentist work as dentist cum receptionist for mere sum of money...all dis wont change dentistry..so an advice to all parents dont enroll ur kids to dis profession pls..
Question time...whts d "right time"
 to marry,to have kids...dis question keeps bothering me..when ppl say oh t
 dis is NT d right time — feeling determined.

blessed be d indian women

HW typical is a life of an indian girl....first study cuse ppl believe DAT if u hav a good degree I get good proposals..nd den b4 u can even hav ur dream degree ...u have a proposal of an 30+old man,a complete package wid good job nd money n family...wow...and den u marry...wht nextt ..ohh ya plan for a kid...nd den u wanna do somethin for urself...oh no I cant cause u gt to take care of d baby so atlast u get stuck wid nothin but SACRIFICE ....BLESSED BE AN INDIAN WOMEN